SUPPORT on ORDER
Every one needs support in order to make it in Life…Yet?
How often are you extended support – people reach out to you – but you are unavailable?
Today this message finds you to ask: How much do you allow yourself to be supported?
How much do you grunt it and bear it because you are too proud to ask, to say you need support!
All too often we deny the support we so abundantly receive because it is not happening the way our picture dictates…It is not finding you in the way you want it to be?
Most often support finds us in ways that we would never have thought…
The truth of LIFE is…IT NEVER HAPPENS THE WAY YOU THINK!
You are supported – by life itself
Consider this in every situation: You are all ways given everything you need in order to get through whatever you may deem to be overwhelming or too much – LIFE wants to be good to you too!
to be bored is such a terrible feeling…
when there is simply nothing that seems interesting …worth doing – or being a part of…?
What puts us into this place of boredom – disinterest – disbelief – ” just don’t wanna be here”? –
For me that is what boredom really feels like! What attitude really gives me this experience?
Skepticism and Cynicism
Very easy to see how skepticism and cynicism leads to sarcastic disbelief and an instant dismissal of value?
A clear sign of this behavior is a “THIS IS NOT FOR ME” attitude – which leads to ultimate unbearable boredom, as eventually everything is dismissed on this basis – this confining limited perspective of benefit and value?
Or simply put: “What is innit for me?”
What qualifies me to make this statement?
These comments of “this is not for me” is merely a personal judgement as there is all ways little or no participation offered // shared to be able to come to this conclusion – in other words there was no individual experience to validate this stance…or judgement…
Such individuals who live in this way are seen to be all ways on the prey for something really interesting and provoking to be seen to be the wise one – the one with the answers and the solutions…
The communication of offer is often clipped and biting offering very little that can be construed as value added?
Copy cats in many ways?
Living LIFE IS by someone else’s words or quotes – someone that managed to impress enough beyond skepticism and cynicism…
This is normally someone of great social standing and authority as the association with this person also add to the impression that must constantly be made to everyone encountered…
So – YES definitely…. to question is wise… with discernment the expression of value is given and received!
YET…an approach of skepticism and cynicism is a complete disregard of magnificent potential~ BORING?
Time after time…
Time after time… these days we so often become totally frantic and perplexed by the “time after time” evolution of living life…
Time follows time… that is what we ARE saying by the CHOICE of our words!
When something goes after… it follows?
Is our focus currently not in all social media to follow or be followed…?
And our sense of importance thus increased by the number of likes or followers?
No wonder time goes after time… we chase after time…wanting ever more of it…yet it rewards us with less …
During the times of validating your LIFE with time… how busy you are… how little time you have… especially to really CARE?…to really BE THERE FOR THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE… even yourself?
Look how much you crave to be liked and to be followed ? yet this means you are required to spend more time?
Quite a strange formula to apply…? chasing time… caring less…and wishing to be ever more in demand?
Giggle… how strange we are! Time after Time!
charlottespirydonova xxx …find me on Facebook and like or follow me please…more giggles
Even when we are standing back to back… and we are not facing in the same direction we can still be of immense support to one another
Why do we have such a vested interest that everyone must do and see it the way we do?
There are infinite possibilities and we are there for each other to create the opportunity to recognize, to experience… to see things the way others see it…
This way we open ourselves to being able to discern so much more!
Even when the angle of your own view shifts but a miniscule degree the vista opens and changes to allow a whole new world!…
Welcome a difference – allow yourself the port… the departure point… to look …to see… to investigate and appreciate that there is in fact other realities equally as valid as yours…
However…BE that as it may… justifications for right versus wrong is not what I am referring to here!
It remains a prerequisite for you to all ways CARE …
BE generously considerate with your presence…your love and your support!
That is truth… the light of the world humans so eloquently refer to… is you in all your CARING CONSIDERATE HUMBLE PRESENCE!
How easy is it for us in our human conditioning to refuse the process of our life –
>>>We just cannot accept the results of LIFE when they are not in congruence with our picture of how it should be…
>>>We find it difficult to accept that a loved one has passed on…
>>>We find it difficult to accept the choices of others – especially when it impacts our picture of how things should be!
>>>We refuse to accept that we are focused merely on some ones potential – cause we THINK how GOOD it can be:
– BUT – there is an “IF ONLY” attached to how good it can be???
Accept with your heart –
ACCEPT…ACKNOWLEDGE>>>WHAT IS… LOOK and SEE what IS going on!
TODAY …this moment ….Let go of how things can be – by first accepting them as they are NOW
– THEN and only then have you put yourself in CHARGE!
Be assured that your choices are now sound and in your best interest…in fact… when your heart is caring and your intent is pure – then you are rewarded with a WIN WIN result for every one…
Even when only valuable lessons of growth is in the offering… and those are not all ways “NICE!”
TRUTH sets you FREE…. it is all ways the best and only option!
How much stuff is there in your life right now that you are carrying?…
Carrying the events of your life like baggage…it is heavy and cumbersome>>>
Days; weeks that all together pass like a flash and turn into years and decades within the mere wink of an eye!
as you are reading this:
Forget past mistakes – just LET IT go
Forget failures – just LET IT go
Forget everything that really does not serve you or enhance your experience of LIFE!
you have grown from it – you have learnt to BE more!
Powerfully switch your attention: …Forget everything except what you are going to do NOW !
– and then DO IT with great attention and with your important presence!
Let your action speak for you – tell the world who you ARE …..inDEED!
That amazing wondrous feeling of achievement is only ever an action away!
Making life happen is a daunting task at best… There is so much to attend to every day – and for most of us the list of things to do seem to grow with ever more demands literally screaming for our attention…
It is all these things we carry with us that seems to weigh heavier and heavier – leaving us to feel lethargic – overwhelmed – burdened…and often on the brink of giving up!
It instills a deep yearning for a new beginning… to start over again … somehow then we believe we will do it differently and give ourselves some better options…
When you look at your life you will see this is a lie.,.. how many times have you started over…given yourself another chance to “get it right” and almost all ways ending up where you are now?
Then HOW do I change IT? – <<<<simple>>>>>
ACCEPT where you are now… accept how you got here… BECAUSE that part is ALL done already!!!
once you accept that this is WHAT IS.;.. then you bring to bear your amazing talents and skills to deal with WHAT IS…why? because you CAN – you all ways have… your life is proof!
CALM down… It all gets done in the end…TRUST the process and accept that this time you have learnt and integrated this particular issue….so that this is not on the repeat list NO MORE…. It is DONE!
You will suddenly and out of nowhere be filled with a sense of aliveness – the ZEST – the willingness to do what needs done…WHY? because you CAN>>>> charlottespirydonova xxx
Service delivery is such a buzz word these days
Those who are at the forefront of service delivery are setting the benchmark for cutting edge development …smooth and sharp
What is service really ?-
I see it as receiving a dedication… A promise delivered with action!
When we are in service of each other – it ripples in every possible direction…
In order to find this niche within ourselves… where being of service to our fellow man is an effortless joy – we need to remember:
Re-MEMBER how to offer service with grace and consideration –
Service is the authentic sharing of the TRUTH of who you ARE – bestowed with effortless generosity
Effortless generosity is the giver of GOOD WILL wherever you may BE!
Then we do not have to create a special day to celebrate love – we can share LOVE every day in every way!